Most estheticians were trained to treat the surface. This course teaches you how to work beneath it through touch, presence, and intentional hands-on care.
The Tender Method Course
Learn the Tender Method through a complete two-hour facial performed entirely by hand. You’ll see how rhythm, pacing, and presence come together to create meaningful results and an unforgettable client experience.
What Is the Tender Method Course?
You know your facials could feel like more.
Maybe you want to offer longer, more massage-forward treatments, but you’re not sure how to fill 90 or 120 minutes without adding more products, machines, or unnecessary steps.
You find yourself repeating the same massage sequence, watching the clock, or wondering if slowing down will leave your client feeling like you didn’t do enough.
You want your facials to feel unforgettable, but no one taught you how to create that kind of experience with your hands.
The Tender Method™ will teach you how to build an entire facial around intentional touch, fascia, the nervous system, rhythm, and presence, so you can stop searching for more things to add and start creating treatments that feel entirely your own.
What you'll learn…..
Learn why touch is your greatest tool and what makes it biologically powerful
Never feel like you’re running out of things to do in a facial again
Perform a luxurious two-hour facial using only your hands
Stay in continuous flow for a full treatment without losing direction
Work with fascia to create visible lift, sculpting, and structural change in the face
Understand the muscles of the face and how tension patterns influence aging
Learn how the nervous system influences skin health, relaxation, and repair
Understand C-tactile afferents and why skin responds to intentional touch
Use hot stones, honey tapping, massage candles, hot towel compression, and sensory techniques to deepen the client experience
Regulate your own nervous system so you can hold space more effectively for your clients
Become more trauma-aware and intentional in your client care
Design a treatment room that supports safety, trust, and transformation
Learn about nervine herbs that support relaxation and recovery
Create treatment experiences clients cannot find anywhere else
Includes 11 downloadable resources, including guidebooks and practical PDFs, plus access to my personal Spotify playlist.
A massage-forward facial training rooted in touch, nervous system regulation, and sculptural massage. Watch a complete two-hour facial unfold in real time while learning the science, technique, rhythm, and presence that create unforgettable client experiences.
Everything Inside The Tender Method™
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Begin with the philosophy behind The Tender Method™ and explore what has been missing from traditional facial education.
Lessons include:
Welcome to The Tender Method™
Setting Up + Supplies
Lesson 1: Beyond Traditions
Lesson 2: The Cost of Care -
Learn how the autonomic nervous system moves between different states, how the skin functions as a living sensory organ, and why C-tactile fibers change the way we understand intentional touch.
Lessons include:
Lesson 3: The Nervous System
Lesson 4: Skin Is a Sensory Organ
Lesson 5: C-Tactile Fibers -
Watch the complete two-hour facial unfold in real time. This section shows how I use rhythm, intentional touch, cleansing rituals, massage, fascia work, and facial sculpting to create the full Tender Method experience.
Lessons include:
Lesson 6: Anchoring / Legs + Feet
Lesson 7: Opening Sequence / Foundational Arrival
Lesson 8: Honey Tapping
Lesson 9: First Cleansing Ritual
Lesson 10: Second Cleansing Ritual
Lesson 11: Mask Ritual + Hot Stones Massage
Lesson 12: Arm + Hand Massage
Lesson 13: Facial Massage
Lesson 14: Fascia Audio Presentation
Lesson 15: Alternative Fascia Opening
Lesson 16: Fascia Lifting and Sculpting the Face
Lesson 17: Fascia Eye Ritual
A complete look at the lessons, demonstrations, guidebooks, and resources included in the course. Click each section below to explore what you’ll receive.
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Each guide is designed to help you understand the work and bring it into your own treatment room.
The Tender Method Guidebook
The 120-Minute Facial Flow Guide
The Inner Work Guide
The Fascia & Facial Anatomy Guide
The Nervines & Adaptogens Guidebook
The Client Intake Form
The Consultation Assessment Guide
The Client Questionnaire Explanation
The Nervous System Cheat Sheet
How to Introduce the Somatic Facial Experience -
A clean, professional treatment room does not have to feel beige, clinical, or predictable. This book encourages you to think beyond the traditional treatment-room aesthetic and use color, lighting, texture, art, sound, and unexpected details to create a space with personality. It will help you design a room that feels imaginative, sensory, and entirely your own while still feeling thoughtful, comfortable, and beautifully cared for.
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This is the personal playlist I use while working with my own clients. I have spent years curating it, carefully choosing music that supports the rhythm, atmosphere, and sensory experience of the facial. It continues to evolve as I discover new songs and refine the way the music moves with the treatment.